Nearly 5 years but who is counting?

[missmyfriend]

Forward, something I forgot to add is that I do not call my W unless it is to discuss the children. And I dont ask her for anything, including money that she would owe me according to what her lawyer put in the divorce decree.

I don't discuss my desire to see my family restored with anyone except my mother and a friend from my bible study (and here, of course).

My W knows that I am not the kind of person to make a promise and break it. Her comments are likely that of feeling guilt.

How do I back off when I'm not advancing or seeking her out? I see her only at the kids "functions". Even then, I don't do anything more than make polite small talk. Have I said something to make you think otherwise?