I won't argue with a couple not having sex if they BOTH are fine with it...who would? To each his own, etc. But you took it to mean that one was being denied it...interesting.
Just find it very hard to believe there are enough men who are happy with sex so infrequently that the AVERAGE marital sex is only once per week. And that those men don't masturbate?! Well, who knows, I haven't talked much with other guys about this. A week is the longest I've ever gone without (not including my pre-teen years, of course), and that was just a few rare circumstances.
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But when my h is tired from working 30 hours on his feet in an operating room, I think it's b/c he's tired and his libido is lower! ( I know He's not getting a "no" from me,) so what I'm saying is that you are interpreting the "only once a week" as meaning that all the men want it more, and the w's are keeping the number low. AND, I don't think so.
OK, I believe you. Still don't quite understand that from a man's point of view though, but I accept the fact that men are not all the same. Sure, tired from working 30 hours, but that's nowhere near a week? And being tired makes me want sex even more sometimes, as it's both a stress reliever and relaxing.
Maybe partly explains why I sometimes drove my wife nuts.
