Yesterday was my birthday. H came and took me to a late lunch and then he took us for massages (sp?) We then can back to the house had a few beers and HE ordered on Payperview the movie, Bridemaids. He knew I have wanted to see it for a long time. Very funny movie, that turned way to sappy in the end. He then ordered another movie that I had no liking for.
We cuddled for a bit, I was tired and wanted to get in bed. He clearly wasn't ready to go to bed, but almost begged me not to go upstairs. I pretended for a bit and finally made my way. He seemed sad. I went anyway. Some time later, he woke me up for ML and it was different that the last 6 months. He was kissing me.
He stayed all day doing chores around the house and paying money for things that he knew I needed (light bulbs, swiffer pads ect.) He is leaving on a three week trip up north and made a small mention that I sould meet him 1/2 way at the Cracked Crab next weekend for dinner and a few drinks on the beach.
My daugter stopped by with my granddaugter to drop by a few gifts and cards. He (2nd time in 8 days) was all over my granddaughter calling himself "grandpa" and goo goo eyes with her.
He EVEN told me how proud he is of my daughter and all the changes that she has made since having the baby. She WAS a train wreck for the last few years.
They left and soon after, so did he. He left behind a birthday card. A not "to my wife" card but a mushy one and wrote a sweet saying and signed it...Love You.
Is he playing with me? Could he be so mean? Did he notice that I have taken the steps to move on? I am not back on any roller coaster. That is for sure. However, did I give up too soon? Or did he realize to late?
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
