No, nothing has changed. Just a few more words on his end. Maybe he knows just what I want to hear?
Maybe so. Or he has a goal/agenda.
Do you think it is okay to invite him over so he at least sees the kids or let him initiate that too? Which if I hadn't this time there would have been no seeing him still!! well, as long as it's good for the KIDS then yes, do what you can to encourage their r's. IDK how it will go for YOU or how hard, but for them, I say yes. Maybe you can leave the house when he comes over so you can GAL (with a little mystery too) and not be in his face. No need to hear more WORDS from him...
I happen to run into him the first time. Boy, did that throw him off. So you think everything he says is a lie? He isn't miserable? Oh geez Life. How can I "know"? My focus would be on whether it matters...b/c seriously, if he's with OW and still drinking/lying, then so what if he SAYS he is miserable?
Maybe if it matters to you that he's miserable inside, so be it. Believe it. I can't disprove it. Maybe it's true. And I can see why it comforts you so go ahead. Believe it but...don't act on his words or that belief, okay?
Then he should have been an actor. I truly believe he isn't a happy man. But I haven't seen him willing to make changes. Action. He claims no R with OW. Why would you keep going back then? We r not that dumb we told him.
the kids told him they are not that dumb? Ouch...
Carry on Life. I wonder if This turmoil is the transition of him finally feeling enough to show it to them.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
