There is not much to report. X looks miserable. He has not done much to take any initiative w/D5 but is at least somewhat reliable with drop-offs and pickups.

We are just polite to each other and that is about it.

I will say that the work that I have done on myself has made me see X differently now. I am more confident now and would not put up with some of his crap now.

I see that X was verbally abusive to me (not just in MLC). Part of me sometimes hurts as I felt there was a time when he really understood me, but now I am not so sure.

New Guy has been good to be with. I do see some of our differences, though. I guess that it is not a matter of having differences, but how you work them out. This is probably something to discuss.

With that said, he has been nothing but kind to me and I love him.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D