25mlc? Anyone? Another update: H came over saw kids First time in a long, long time. Good for kids. A little sad too. Many tears were shed by H. He seems a lot different. Just his whole demeanor.
My oldest noticed it too. I invited him to supper and he showed.
I suppose I should not have done this? Dbing? But, he needs to see his kids. He is miserable. Doesn't want a D. Says he misses his home and us.
Then he rides off into the sunset back to OW who claims he has no R with just a place to stay.
Sooo, he's SAYS he is "miserable and SAYS HE doesn't want the divorce."????
So he won't argue money in the divorce OR does it mean he wants to come home and work on things? AND Has he left ow?
oh, no he hasn't...he's still lying.
My question is what's to talk about? Letting the chips fall where they fall, or work out different custody and visitation issues? Except he did not request that...
So, maybe now it's up to him to decide if you and the kids are worth him DOING SOMETHING different? You know, "action"?
Your h has talked a good game the whole time, his WORDS have always been great...but what exactly has changed now?
you have had dinners with him wherein he stalls you and or gets you to ask for even less from him...now he did this same thing but with the kids there too? Life, I'm not telling you what to do here.
But look at the facts. Nothing has changed on his end. Even the words are the same.
He visited the kids. GREAT. Let's hope he keeps that up. Seriously, I hope he does.
Life, keep on keeping on.
If he wakes up and DOES something different, we're all rooting for you.
Otherwise you are on track for recovering.
As far as I'm concerned, IF he is capable of change, it won't be b/c you believe the lies.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
