I think what I should really key on is responding to mixed messages, they never mean anything good. When that happens it's time to slow down, step back and reassess. At one point I did back off with MM, I don't believe I ever mentioned it here. I'd asked her to do something on a weekend and her response was "I'll have to check and see what my roommates are doing, we'll see" Um, that was not enthusiastic (She likes to go out to lunch with her roommates on Sundays, who btw wanted her to ask me to come...which she never did! So I never called but left it to her and guess what on the Saturday she's texting me and Fbing me. So I took that as her showing interest and asked her for the next day, she said yes and we had a great time. But, again, when you're getting mixed messages continually, rather than try to analyze each message, look at the whole and respond to it. That's what I've learned....today anyway! Btw, Voldemort told me last night that she was impressed that I was able to stand up for my needs so quickly in this sitch. She also said MM sounded like a nice person who just got overwhelmed. Anyway, that's it for me. I went to church in the morning and the race track in the afternoon...broke even, that's a winning day in my books! Tuesday night I'm starting a five week church seminar series "How to let God help you", it's about healing. I'm there for that.
