well, you could not answer . . . which is probably what I would do, or you could say 'I am not quite sure what the point of the email was'.

Thoughtless and insensitive, but then he is a MLCer . . . . I have been told that these guys go on thinking about us. Which must be terrific fun for OW smirk

definitely on a different bus from the rest of us . . . Probably wants life to be OK again, and not have to feel bad. Although it is him that is making himself feel bad, but there you go.