Well the night was a flop. W never said, but I got the feeling she would've preferred my absence. Anyway, we chatted 3-4 times throughout the night. MIL was pleasant, FIL pretty much cold shoulder. Still can't figure him out. We worked sideby side for 4 years.
Probably a big no no, but I spent the majority of the night chatting with the daughter of a friend of my inlaws. She introduced herself by saying, "Hi, I'm X, and your cute." Talk about a much needed ego boost. So, we just chatted. I'm sure I said too much, but convo was easy going. Several times throughout the evening I noticed my wife watching from a distance while dancing or chatting with her girlfriends. It wasn't brought up on our way home. Who know what her thoughts were on this, but should I even be interested or care? To tell you the truth though, I feel/felt a little guilty.
It feels like W is DB'ing me. In the past month or so, she's all dressed up 24/7 and GAL'ing like crazy. Out every weekend with her friends and social media ing like crazy. Heck, even sleeps with the cell by her head.
I read someones post a few weeks ago and it was suggested that moving out or the D was needed to allow the time and space needed for the WAS. Is this valid?
How do I make this world stop spinning? Quick, someone hit me with a 2x4 or Mac truck!!
Me:38 W:35 T:13 M:10 (3/15/01) SD:12 D:9 S:4 Need time to think: 7/19/11 D Bomb Dropped: 8/26/11 W serves me D papers: 9/6/11 Officially served 9/30/11
So, we just chatted. I'm sure I said too much, but convo was easy going. Several times throughout the evening I noticed my wife watching from a distance while dancing or chatting with her girlfriends. It wasn't brought up on our way home. Who know what her thoughts were on this, but should I even be interested or care? To tell you the truth though, I feel/felt a little guilty.
