thank you for your explanation - in it i see alot of things that i went thru when i was in the midst of my "crazy" time.
i am afraid that i might have seen a bit "red" in the discussion yesterday because i have been on both sides of the fence.
i had a longer post in here but i just erased it because when looking at it, it just looked like justification, and the last thing i want to do is justify my words
just wanting you to know that you are straight on in your explanation
