Treading water - time and patience

[NYCPeter]

We've been living but seperated for the last 4 months.
It's only in the last 2 weeks we've slept in the same bed.
I am definitely going back this Friday and I will sleep in our bed and see what she does when she comes home from work.

I am totally misreading the signals - I thought everything was going so well, but being intimate and sharing a bed was something she was "forcing" herself to do. She says I am a good husband and father - she just doesn't "feel it" for me anymore.