Wife no longer in love with me - Part 3

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Thanks Finah, I appreciate your thoughts and comments.
However, please enough with the OM talk.....I don't know and in a way I don't want to know.....it hurts to imagine it and it would be the complete end to any of my reconciliation efforts.
When I am ready I will find out by either sitting down with her and confronting her - there are ways I can get things out of her (and no, not torture) or I will pay for a PI.
Yesterday was strange to me, as I didn't expect so many tears from her given she previously has been so cold and hard about this. I am still trying to digest everything that went down.