MTS.....you have basically outlined all my fears as well.
Where will I meet someone else, will I find someone else, will I have a family etc etc.
I guess we never know whats around the corner. For example, I have worked out I'm nowhere near ready to date, but the other day I met a beautiful girl who is my new manager at an ad agency I use. Her boss told me she's single and I should ask her out.....I won't, but it's nice to know they're out there.
Also apparently theres a man drought in Australia for women in their early to mid 30s, so it could be worse!
All I want in the world is my W back, but it will probably not happen.
But as 25 says, and many women I've spoken to about this, they are all different and all Rs are different. Most women I speak to say they would never walk away from a M for the reasons my W did. Some people just have different morals and ethics and are brought up differently.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011