I guess I will go the PI route then......I just can't imagine it with her, it's just not her, but who knows, she is not the W i once knew.

If there is an OM, then that's it for me....I will not be trying to reconcile, I will take a very hard line with the D process and lawyers.

Damn, just looked at PIs and they're expensive!

She says she cries as it's sad, she is sad for what we once had and the potential. Is the first time I have seen her cry in a while......previously she has been so set in her way.
She makes me feel like I was the worst H, and she couldn't handle it anymore, as I was always unhappy and she constantly had to worry about making me happy, which is rubbish. She says I couldn't handle change, so if we were to have a baby then it would be too much for me......I was unhappy, but none of the rest of this is true.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011