Following along as well and congrats on recognizing your mistakes. Don't worry, you'll make different ones the next time, and the next time. The important thing is to learn from each experience; more importantly, reflect back on what you learned about yourself. Yes! Stay detached for awhile and let the other person show you through actions. Heck, we can all talk all day, but can we walk the talk? That's what you have to find out. We're all new at this and probably never got it right the first time around. Try not to beat yourself up and believe love will happen again...because it will and probably when you least expect it and aren't looking for it.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10