but youngatheart, can you step in on SSM's thread?
He needs a male's advice from one who made it "to the other side" b/c he sure seems stuck
(& he needs to decide if he wants to change, or accept things and what he wants from us, etc)
b/c idk how to help if the answer is always "tried that already" and then a defense of the status quo.
thanks
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
