Hey, girl, I am fine today. I'm sorry you are feeling hurt over H. They can be such arses, can't they? How did you know?
Were you able to find out any alternative to filing? Or is this a preliminary meeting with L?
I wholeheartedly support your wanting to stand for your M, I would just like to see you do more of the things DB recommends. I don't believe they are at all one size fits all, so what may work for one may not work for someone else. Have you had any more sessions with a DB coach? Is there anything she recommended that you could do? I really think more personal contact with you H is something you should do. You've had a bit of that recently, and it wasn't awful for you. How is your S doing? Still working with his F since school has started?
Well, got to go feed the beasts, have a nice evening, rysmom.