Gunny, So the bright future in Ohio is not quite so bright. All the more reason to keep on improving you, making you and life with you more attractive. The verbiage on this board is
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become the person she’d be a fool to leave.
She may not see it right away, or she may be seeing it and not believe it, or there may be so much inertia in her plan she is not able to turn from it now.
None of this matters, as you’ve decided to make changes, and so you shall.
I know it is counter intuitive, but the more compassionate you can be of her issues with her new life the better position you place yourself in.
See the line spacing? It makes long posts easier to read and follow.
This is your thread, about your sitch I do not wish to make it about mine. To answer your questions.
We are not amicable my STBX “seems to poke the bear in the cage” every so often to try for a reaction justifying her decision. I’ve managed to maintain bearing much of the time. I vent on this board. You can too.
STBX will see her decision through before questioning it. Although she has been justifying it more often lately.
GAL: much of my free time has been spent maintaining three houses. I bow hunt so practice and sight adjustments for new arrows have kept me busy between archery leagues. I practice hand rhythms on a Djembe, drumming circles are too new age for me. I still run knees permitting. When the snow get deep enough CC ski individually and with a group.
I have been thinking about joining a D support group JBanti is in one that seems to be predominantly female.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
