Treading water - time and patience

[25yearsmlc]

I have not read your whole sitch

and detest giving out advice that might not be in your interests.

Yet it's kind of settled here that YOU don't move out unless you have to, for YOU.

So slow that move out down. Get home, be the best man you can be and do your 180s and GAL (can't stress that enough)

and do NOT move out til you have seen a L and figured more things out...

If you must, tell your w that "it's just temporary while you find a place"..."you are saving money", "everyone is still adjusting", blah blah blah whatever, but get home.

With a disabled d, if it's bad CP, she's truly a fool to leave a good man.

I promise to read your thread before saying anymore.

But everyone deserves a hug...so

((( )))