it isn't that I disagree with your choice and it is YOUR choice...
it's the tone you have taken with and about her most of this time.
You are So angry that I felt things were doomed when I first read your post.
I thought, "here's a h who wants to punish his w for him feeling bad about himself, but he'll probably blame MLC or OM" and you've tried to do both
w/some lip service to your flaws...
You know if things are going to end, okay but does that mean YOUR WORK STOPS?
See I don't think so. I think you kick it up a step.
I can see advantages to not seeing her every day for sure. Way easier to GAL for one.
But don't wallow in the A b/c I don't think that is the cause of this so much as the symptom.
Make sense?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016