UPDATE 2:04pm Well, I'm royally miffed at my wife right now. I had scheduled with her early in the week to call our son today at 4:30p (EST). I tried a couple more time until 4:45p and then I decided to send her the following text message:
"In the future, pls keep me informed if you aren't able to accept my call at the planned time. I'll try again @ 5p (your time) or we'll just reschedule."
I called at 5pm and still no answer.
I hope I wasn't too formal with my message. I want to get my point across that there is a reason why I pre-planned the call. My wife does the opposite; she calls when she wants to or can, without notice.
I'm trying to be the better person here.
you are being the better person here. She's not being considerate and I think you made the point politely but clearly.
Not too formal. MAYBE she has a real reason for mssing the time and you'll cope well with that possibility I'm sure.
but for the sake of discussion assume she blows it off. Or gets mad at YOU.
So, you have to say CALMLY (and keep records of these texts)
that you had made plans and will plan on making plans so she needs to cooperate more
or, is she trying to block/hinder access to your son?
(I doubt it, but you can say it so she gets the underlying message which is that courts frown on her behavior....)
she's just clueless now.
Ironically if you end up divorced for good, when she looks back on it she'll list the original reasons for leaving as the reasons for divorce.
As if they are all permanent flaws that are etched in stone...
Almost wish she had said "Alamo is too fat. He weighs 344 lbs"
and then you could disappoear awhile and fast foward 2 years...and people could see you
and see that you weigh 180 lbs today and
wonder what HER problem was that she couldn't give you a chance to change.
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
