So she slept with the OM the other night, rubbed it in my face and when I confronted her, was totally unapologetic. I told her it's not OK and that we are selling the house and getting two separate places. She is delusional and wants to stay here together for a year while she is in this other relationship. I am not backing down. I told her I am talking to divorce lawyers now and I have not made a decision but when we are wrapped up with the house, if she is still unwilling to break off the affair, then I will be filing. I told her that if she does break it off, I MIGHT consider staying here IF she is willing to go to counseling and if I can somehow find a way to trust her again.
So there you have it. 13 years of blood, sweat and tears, amazing memories and adventures, love, romance, intimate moments, travel, building a house, our amazing kids and what would have been an incredible future together - flushed.
