You know, mish, there's always one in the family who is good at paying bills, and one who only cares they get paid. Just write the check and show it to him, and say this is for this or that. I write all the checks, or pay bills online. It doesn't take any time at all, and my H says as long as they are getting paid, and I am not spending too much money on shoes,(amazon.com- best place for me to find deals)he's happy. I tell him what the bills are for, like when the power bill was 350 dollars shocked , so he'll know we can't get lots of extras this month.
Have you had your trip to Aldi, yet? They've got mushrooms, bell peppers, and other stuff for only 99 cents this week. I am going after our new refrigerator comes this afternoon. It will be nice to have one that can keep ice cream frozen.

Have a good one, mish!

vc crazy