SA - thanks for stopping by. I am having a catch up while I recover from a very hectic few days
I suspect that reality is setting in big time with my xh, but could be wrong. I keep hearing from old friends who report hearing from xh for the first time in years. . . . although our oldest and closest friends haven't heard from him yet.
I have the oddest feeling that he is sitting on a knife edge, and that he could fall one way and be out there 'forever', or fall the other and get the help he needs. Who knows though?
We cannot fix them and at times I wonder whether my continued occasional contact is helping or hindering. Talk about walking in the dark with your hands tied!
