{{{Shiny}}}, what a great conversation. That you both can be THAT honest and open, I applaud you. Wow!

BTW--don't you know it's not a good idea to argue with someone who's had a FEW or one too many.. , but it sounded like yours turned out for the better. At least in my case, my H's conversations while he was drunk, were a lot of times, not remembered the next day. Thus the reason I always told him to go to bed.
Cathy