Hi,
Sorry you haven't had much support yet....keep posting and some great people will help.
I'm probably not the best one to offer advice, as all I do is stuff things up and whilst ive been going through this a while, I'm still quite new and inexperienced and struggling to come to terms with this.
Just follow the book and do the LRT as much as possible and relax....I struggle with it, but can see it's the right move.
Take care


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011