Well that didn't go very well at all. Caught up with w, all nice and light early on talking about ourselves, what we've been up to.
She then started talking about the M, about everything I did wrong, she was crying the whole time. I started validating everything she said, told her why I was like that, the work I've been doing on myself etc. She cried more, asking why I couldn't tell her what I was going through, why I bottled it up inside etc.

She then said she can never go back now, she has made her decision. She is sad as we had so much potential, but she no longer loves me like that and couldn't imagine being with me again. She wants to start splitting up assets etc.
She then cried more and more and had to leave to go home.
Said she doesn't miss having to try and make me happy all the time and she is happy being on her own and not having to worry about anyone else.
I asked if she would consider going to MC again......she said sorry no she's done, we both need to move on.
Then she walked away in tears and that was it........I dont expect to hear from her again.
I'm so unhappy now.......i didn't want to hear any of that, all I wanted was catch up....she started the M discussion, I tried to validate and hear her.
I said to her if she has no feelings for me then why cry so much.....she said it's because she will always care for me, but not as a H.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011