He's clearly not well. In a way that's good as far as you not taking this all so personally
but its very concerning obviously...and even if he's "just super depressed" but doesn't kill himself
doesn't mean he can't destroy your m and his future...he needs help. You cannot fix him or force him to get help. Don't try to.
But surely HE sees he needs it?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016