Wife no longer in love with me - Part 3

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My w texted me last night and asked if we can catch up today. I'm considering doing it now. I feel like I can't keep putting this off forever and may as well see what she wants and try my best to be upbeat and positive. Will be hard and I don't know if I can be, but will see how I go. My DB coach keeps saying I need to have an interaction with her to show her my differences.
I have some new clothes to wear and will put on her favorite cologne.
Spoke to my lawyer yesterday and she said the same thing......don't rush this, given I don't want a d anyway.

Another complication or annoyance now is this girl I went on a date with keeps pursuing me. Nothing happened, and I don't want it to, but she is a nice girl that I have known for years but she just won't take a hint. She keeps saying I need to move on from my w....I keep saying I'm not ready and let me be, but she keeps hanging around........aaaarrgghhh.....women!