btw,

when a man says he's "not getting any", he won't. Just an fyi okay, but that's a remark that will get you nowhere fast.

Huge turn off to me and every woman I know. At least when it comes from a man. It's also just not funny.

I understand your frustration but the few things you shared with us that you "tried," have all sounded like terrible ideas to me the way you describe them...

"Dragging her" to sex t's...is just an example of wording that freaks me out.

I appreciate that you are inexperienced sexually but it does not seem to really hit you that sex for her, with you wasn't good. she tried often at first but having bad unrewarding sex does lower one's libido.

Maybe she said she hasn't had an orgasm or can't, so that you won't fruitlessly pressure her to have one.

We can't "know" what happened of course. We only hear you here and she's not posting. But dang, I still feel that you are not digging deeply enough

or you are hiding from a more obvious truth. Sorry.

have YOU sought out sex counselling from a sex t? Yes just you...how could that hurt?

without your w there you won't have to fear any embarrassment and you can ask them all the frank questions you want...

Or lower your libido.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change