I'm in the same position too, but my H is less inclined to work on M than yours sounds like. It's hard bc not being physical in large part may have killed our M, and not being physical is part of DB. Seems counterintuitive, but I'm relying on the wisdom of all these people who have gone through this before us. I put you on my watch list. You have my sympathy; this is an awful thing to go through.

I just ordered DR on Amazon and you can get a used copy for $5 including shipping. Is that PC to say on this forum?


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.