I'm sorry to hear about the latest update. Plain and simple, it isn't "fair", but sadly it is what is. I'm swallowing the same bitter medicine now, no recoupment for paying for her grad school and the increased earning power and must now deal with short sales/foreclosure mess.
What REALLY resonated with me in your latest update was how your WAW is trumpeting to everyone how she was taken advantage of and abused during your relationship. My WAW is doing the same and that infuriates me to no end. I wish I had some sage advice to handle this, but I don't. Moreover, I'm not sure how to one DB's with someone who demonizes you and the R and has no interaction with you while in the midst of their fog.
All I can offer is keep doing what you've been doing...you've been GAL and handling everything as well as you can. I hope school and your GAL is going well.
Keeping you in my thoughts and hoping for the best!
_______________________ M: 47; W: 39 M: 4.5 yrs; T: 18 years No children Separated: 01/19/11 Wife Served Papers: 02/1/11 Wife moved: 03/05/11 Responded: 04/14/11