JAS I would post in the Newcomers forum. There is more traffic there. But 1st get the DR book and start there. My W is also home and it is very hard thing to live separate and barely talk to one another. hang in there.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”