I was DB'ing but just discovered an affair

[NTX_Dad]

jb - yes, I forgot about the reference to Skyline. Man I miss it. I only get up there about once a year.

Well the morning has been interesting to say the least.

A little back story... my wife has two friends that reached out to me last month. They said they weren't choosing sides and wanted to be friends with both of us. I always liked them but only hung out with them when my wife invited to me to do things with them all. One of them has a husband that I've really liked.

Anyway, about three weeks ago they invited my D and I out to dinner with them. We had a great time and I was truly thankful for their friendship and thoughtfulness. They even privately told me in a quick 30 minute conversation that they don't agree with what my W is doing and that I should protect myself and not let her run over me.

A couple of days ago I asked the friends H out for beers for tonight. He didn't respond immediately.

During the melt down last night, my D complained that she misses doing things as a family, so my W said we'll all go out for dinner this weekend.

After I left, I found out that the H does want to go out and wanted to bring his family (my W's friend). I told him the more the merrier. I then sent a message to the W letting her know.

Boy did she blow up. She started by saying she wasn't comfortable with it. Apparently she then started texting her friend and ended up getting in a fight about it. The friend insisted she wasn't taking sides and that I was her friend too and they were going out with me no matter what. The friend AND the hubby both called me last night to tell me not to worry about it and that they still want to go out.

This morning I started receiving horrible texts from W calling me every four letter word in the dictionary, telling me to get my own friends, and blaming me for the fight with her friend, and that she hates my guts. She then said she'll see me when I get home. I replied and told her to not come by and to leave me alone.

I closed saying that I accept our relationship is over, but as a friend I think she should see our doctor asap because her behavior, rage, and drama is out of control and that her personality has changed in the past month.

She had serious side effects from Celesta (?) over the summer and quit taking them cold turkey. Since then she really has been from one extreme to the other. The rage comes in an instant and it's like a completely different person is in the room.

Anyway, after that message the conversation went dead.

At this point, I honestly don't care what happens anymore. Something is wrong and she's become an immature monster and is not the woman I fell in love with.