Not quite in midseason form...yet

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I also spoke with Lenni and am familiar with the letter. Like she said, if you do chose to send it, timing is everything. So think about it. For me, I never felt that I had the right opportunity to send it.

The other very important part of this letter is acknowledging your part in the breakdown of your M. Spend time on this part and make sure it is genuine and from the heart.

You might suspect this is manipulative on my part. This is not the case. It is simply to let you know I get it. (This is an optional fragment Lenni said does or does not have to be included.)

I would personally not include this.

Also, like she said, for her birthday, IF you chose to do something, the simple two word text "Happy Birthday" is more than enough IMO.

And I understand that of course you hope that this letter sparks something in her. But keep expectations low. Remember, this is as much for you as it is for her. Release yourself from the mistakes you made, forgive yourself and be prepared to move forward.

Peace.