Honestly, I'm trying not to worry about it. Whatever happens, happens right?
I think I prepped Gabe for a budget meeting tonight. I told him I paid the water bill and the gas bill so they wouldn't cut them off but WE need to sit down and figure out how to pay the electric and cable with what is left after the car payment. He said he gets paid today and I can use that. I told him I really just want him to sit down with me and help figure out how to handle all of this. He kept trying to just hand me the money to deal with it but I stayed insistent that he do it with me. We'll see........he doesn't want to be involved, never has, that's how all of this crud got dumped on me for the last 18 years. He's there, he needs to participate. I'm SO OVER IT!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
I told him I paid the water bill and the gas bill so they wouldn't cut them off but WE need to sit down and figure out how to pay the electric and cable with what is left after the car payment. He said he gets paid today and I can use that. I told him I really just want him to sit down with me and help figure out how to handle all of this. He kept trying to just hand me the money to deal with it but I stayed insistent that he do it with me. We'll see........he doesn't want to be involved, never has, that's how all of this crud got dumped on me for the last 18 years. He's there, he needs to participate. I'm SO OVER IT! 
