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hahaha....!

I used to see that "Bowes Gym" commercial of the 40 something guy working out, shaving his head, and joining a band as someone who was probably MLC...

Now... I'm wondering if he might have been a LBS who was GALing... grin

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Originally Posted By: Telemark
Another good news/bad news part of all of this - and I suspect most of you are experiencing the same thing: I keep having to buy smaller clothes or get them altered.

Not to brag or anything..OK, I'll brag just a little...in March I was at 218 lbs. with a 40" waistline. This morning I'm 175 lbs. with a 33" waistline. And daily trips to the gym have, well, reshaped the rest of me.

W, you are going to miss out on a good thing...


All I have to say is whistle whistle!

Maybe we all need to get together and create a DB'ing Workout Video/Diet Plan! grin wink smile


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Great idea. I can see it now:

"Lose pounds as you lose your spouse!"


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We used to call it the LBS diet ....


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In our neighbor we are calling it The Depression Diet. There's 4 or 5 divorces going on in our neighborhood that I know of. frown


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Just checking on you. How are you doing today.

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Hello, paige40, thanks for checking in.

Meh...thinking about my W's "family transplant". It is all so surreal.

And then I remembered something. Her mother also had several "friends" - each of the three sisters has a different father - and their relationship with her is very poor. A few years ago she announced she had a new "family" in TX (where she lives). The sisters were furious and that really put the nail in the coffin for their relationship with her.

My W has become her mother.


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I swear if I turn out like my mother I'll....I'll do something, that's for sure!

Yes, it does sound like it is history repeating itself.
3 different Dad's? Yikes!


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Quote:
My W has become her mother.

This stikes home for me as well. Not JMO either..2 SILs and D have made this statement to me unsolicted..

It does not change anything. It just causes concern for me about her.


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