Thank you 25. I will look into that..The 180's I have done are contacting old friends, trying to be more active around the house. The W hasnt done dishes or laundry in months (not sure if that counts) been more active with the kids, taking them places school things etc... The GAL is more difficult for me (imagine that)I have brought back an old hobby and turned the garage into a man cave of sorts.

My problem now is the anniv. and her B-day is coming up very soon. I am giving a spa gift certificate for B-day, so she can pick from what she wants Facial, massage or what ever. I like the idea of blank card with something nice written in it for the anniv. but I dont know what to say!! I want to avoid making this about me it should be about us. Any ideas? Thanks !!