What is your intention behind saying all of that?

How much of that do you think is going to register after "I want you to know that I have been absolutely devastated by your affair and I have been going through a very deep process of self-reflection and change." ?

Have you changed much about yourself?

Hard for people to resist things that aren't directed at them.

Easy for people to resist stuff that people "tell them."


M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.