I am kinda a newbie, but agree with the others. I hope I am wrong but please be on your guard. In my sitch, my W dropped the bomb, but was apparently over it in 1 week. It took a whole year+3 months after to get the 2nd bomb with more bravado. Please continue to make the changes for you! Remember a true MLC is a rollercoaster and even thought the first hill seemed drastic and short, it usually is a baby bump compared to the rest of them and it is a looooong ride. Mine is just starting, and I wish i would have seen this back when the 1st bomb hit.
My advice is to read and reread the DB and DR books. Also read the resources that Cadet will probably give to you. They are very, very helpful. Take care of yourself the best you can, and for gosh sakes, don't backslide from your hard earned changes! Lord knows that I did the 1st time and it probably help me get into the sitch i am in now (not necessarily good) .
Good luck and I am prayin' for ya!
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12
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