Do you really want to see her?

Right now? At this point in time?

Would it be better or worse for you to say "sorry I'm busy.. lets try sometime later this month" or something along those lines?

Which is going to actually bring you closer towards your goal?

What do you see as your goal?

M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.