Looks like it's going to be "lose half of everything, no recompense for paying for her four advanced degrees, maintenance for 9 months".
And the sad news is, that's probably a GOOD deal after 19 years of marriage, with the legal system the way it is.
Today, she apparently (I was told by a friend) posted links to stories about how women are held in disregard and society should be ashamed of itself, and how if you're nice to someone, they take advantage of you, as if I had been abusing her for the past two decades.
I know this is meant to be a site about saving marriages, but from here, the legal institution of it seem so corrupt and unfair that I cannot recommend it to anyone. The better a husband I was, the worse the outcome turned out.
