Just an update to what's been going on with fabulous me! LOL
Fall is finally upon us, and I am close to having the former home place cleaned out of anything I want. I have to force myself to go out there. Working on my bedroom, and putting final touches on my kitchen. I've been eating like a horse, cooking entire meals for just me. I've always been a "ah, just make a sandwich" type.
Found out that, of course, the Divorce Decree is not worded exactly right for the Army, so I have to get a reworded one. ( More money for the Lawyer.)
My D 23 that was living with me has about resolved her probem with babydaddy, and it appears only her luggage is living with me at the moment.
I'm getting more hours in at work and asked for a raise yesterday. Ballsy, ain't I? Now if the old house would sell and XH had to start paying the alimony, things would be rosy. Not to mention if he would go ahead and retire.
My personal life is quiet, and I am happy with that. If my children are happy and my grandkids are well, I am happy Occasionally still let my wander to the WHY'S, but I know there is no simple answer for that.
As Eric reminded me, 'It's all about justification' with the X, and he is right. I just wonder how far justification can carry you?
