Hi sgctxok, didn't know this was here until five minutes ago. Sometimes I get curious to see what the mods here are saying to other posters, and found this. Thank you sgctxok, I do try my best to be a friend first here, and try to help where I can. I have so much empathy for rysmom, as I can relate to the extreme panic she feels. I don't know where I would be tomorrow if my H started the whole thing all over again. Other than where rysmom is now. I posted to rysmom back years ago; we have a lot in common, but where my M went one way, hers has stayed in a limbo that must be awful for her. I only want to help her in any way I can. I would not encourage her to file, because I would not have done so. I know it comes to that for some here, but I always encourage people here and in my life away from here to try to work things out, because I believe what the Lord said about marriage.
That being said, if I have said anything I shouldn't, I am sorry, and will be good from now on .
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