I am not attacking you, I do not mean to offend, I didn't mean to come across as rolling up 14 years into a cliche statement.
I know DB works, it can work, and one of the most basic tenant is change and monitor results.
Don't worry, no offense taken.
I know it's natural for advice givers to assume that since there have been no results so far, it is because not all things have been tried, or because the approach is wrong. I can't tell you how many times I've heard, "Yes, but you haven't tried the highly acclaimed method ___ yet." You have to understand how that sounds after the previous approaches with highly respected therapists did not produce the full desired results.
