I didn't want to read it either, but about 8-9 months back I was fed up, angry and ready to begin divorce proceedings.

A friend recommended I read that book before I make any decisions to understand exactly the long term consequences of taking such action would be on my children.

It did and does make me hesitate.

However, it was never my choice/decision. You can't stay married to someone that has no wish to be married to you.

BITS
Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.