You make valid points but imo, carry them too far.
Maybe it's a devil's advocate thing, but where did she say her perspective is more important than his?
And Her comment about his dying wasn't completely evil and random, HE obsesses about his own death and wallows in his depression, ALL in the face of a beautiful new life.
And I don't think she expected him to "understand" her pregnancy-- so much as not emotionally leaving her during it and then literally leaving her...which ruins a whole lot of it.
She admitted she did a "tit for tat" thing and she apologized pretty darn fast. She has endured a lot
and what you are "equating" in actions, are her REACTIONS to his actions...not the same.
She was not the aggressor originally--she was the aggrieved party.
But, maybe what you are saying is that NOW, some of her behaviors are reversing this?
So that she will no longer be the injured party- but the aggressor b/c she escalated? hmmm
Food for thought.
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