Look buddy, I know what you are looking for. Look for it. There are archives here as well.
Yes, many of us were told to move on. Because our friends and family don't want to see us hurt, and they think we won't hurt if we just move on. Move on...quickly. Find someone new.
Everyone story is different, and everyone's story is similar.
We are in this, together, alone.
I am literally swamped at work.
You want an example to follow and compare...you want hope. Hope is fine...but that example you're looking for...those are someone else's shoes... Become your own hero, become that guy that people who come here look for.
Do your best.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
