I know the separation will be tough but I am trying to be possitive about it. It is not something we can do anything about either. Our family did not get medicla clearnance to go with him so he has to go alone. We are heading to our home state to be by family and I will GAL there. I actually am transfering jobs and got a promotion to boot in the process. My H has some thinking and growing to do so it is actually a good thing for him to not have us for a while. Maybe he will realize what he may be losing if he does not straighten up. He will lose us for sure if he does not. I am not going into this blindly. I will be done if he does not change for good. I have both DB and the five love languages but I cannot get H to read anything. I will read the five love languages and pull from it and talk to h about it.
Thank you very much for yur input. You have helped me!!
