Got it together some this week. Ok, just too busy. Both W and I are are exhausted. Her solution is having her parents move in across the street, so......one more thing to resolve.

Found out that the office trip W is attending with several women from her office includes her boss, who they will meet up with there. W did not mention this - not surprising, I suppose. Just shows that she's keeping some things to herself.

Also found out that we will be able to take a temporary position to work in another country for several months - the whole family on a great adventure! We'd been hoping for this opportunity, so that 's great. W will work remotely from there. Hope this is a good thing,